Christmas Presents for Girlfriend
Cultural Perspective

Let’s go back to the Friendly Islands (name by Captain James Cook in 1777) for a Christmas Presents for Girlfriend in the Kingdom of Tonga. This is a family and friends’ occasion where they come together on the evening of the 24th of December to deliver their son’s Christmas presents right to the front door of his girlfriend’s home.

What does it takes?Christmas Presents for Girlfriend

Presents included are the best around in town in (or from overseas families) so far as to cosmetics, luxury bath products, celebrity’s perfumes and all those accessories. European sheets and sexy blankets are proud to give away this time. A special Christmas costume is a must match with the color of her brand new shoe. Sexy lingerie is not! This practice is yet to respect and I don't think it will.

All these Christmas Presents for Girlfriend are putting on the top of some tapa (special type of cloth made from park tree) and very fine white mats and are hand carried to the girlfriend house. (They are not packed in a suitcase to make it easier) But this way shows a respect for the dignity of your girlfriend.

The Convoy- Christmas Presents for Girlfriend

People participate in delivering the Christmas Presents for Girlfriend must include your own sister or auntie (your father’s sister) they are most respected people in Tongan community living. This tells the girlfriend family how important they are when these people show up. (Important person coming to your place)

You must take a band (music of some type) with some refreshments in taking the Christmas Presents for Girlfriend. This is very much like a party from European perspective. Yea, it’s going to be a lot of singing, dancing, eating and merry.

The Dignity of Your Girlfriend

This is to show how much you love and respect for that special friend of yours. You cannot take the Christmas Gifts for Girlfriend on your own because you going to let her down if you do. The more people the better and sometimes better than the Christmas Gifts for Girlfriend.

You’ll be received the same way too. The Matapule (an orator to speak on your behalf) brief the reason of your presentation and then follow with a Kava(traditional drinks) party, dancing & singing until late in the following morning.

Whether the girlfriend or her family admires you is now a separate issue. The man and his party are here and respectful cultural receiving is administered. Sometimes this practice plays a major role in one’s party to accept and go on to the next level of the relationship or the opposite direction, poor you.

The Virginity Saga

The most important factor behind this cultural practice is that your Girlfriend is a Pure Virgin. The boyfriend is dying for her ‘Yes, (I do)’ to come to pass as soon as possible.

You’re demoralizing the family and the society if you are not a virgin. Living with a Partner is neither a practice nor a civil union. Gay is identical and is away from the typical recognition.

Virginity is the most important gift a Bride can give to her Groom. They do not celebrate their new home until after Church on Sunday even the big occasion happened last Thursday. Hence on Sunday night women from the Groom side prepare the couple’s bed covering it with white linen/cloth so that they know in the morning as if their son enjoy a virgin new wife or not.

A very happy mother celebrates if her girl is a virgin. The Groom in return prepares a big ‘Umu-Tu'u-Vai, Hangi in Maori and take it to the house of his in-laws. ‘Thank you I’m riding a brand new Jaguar XJ that no one ever did it before me!’ Bad luck for so many newlyweds that your first morning (after getting married) found that you are not a virgin; the marriage is automatic come to an end sometimes.

Can You Cheat on Virginity?

You may try a lose fight. Tongan women know this very well. It is clearly exposed in two identical ways:

1 By looking at the lower part of the bottom eye-lashes of a young lady. There is a half-rounded black icon on both eyes. Your make-up may try to hide this on a Football Playground.

2. At some stage of the wedding ceremony, the Bride will perform a traditional solo dancing. The last thing to put on her hot body is coconut oil. Coconut oil will sunrise (shine) on her unblemished skin.

If her skin does not shine it means, the skin absorb the coconut oil and do not deserve the Christmas Gifts for Girlfriend.

This may be too harsh on ladies as the above does not give rise to the virginity of a handsome young man. However, the respect and dignity they entertain is well above in our society.

I understand we all have our own culture. One is unique and different from the others. Mine could only be a matter to laugh at or someone knows where to look for beautiful young virgin to receive his Christmas Presents for Girlfriend.

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Please note this is not Yahoo Answers to raise opinion against a particular topic. A better way of keeping culture and custom is to share and learn from each others and is what is required in this column.

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End of the story. However, you have the most popular Christmas Gifts for Girlfriend at your finger tips. Have your shopping and then we would love to learn about your culture. I know the most exciting Christmas Presents for Girlfriend is yet to be written. This could be you!

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This is an area where we can help each other and also do not give the same gifts as we did last time.

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